It’s Going to Be All Right..

It’s Going to Be All Right..

Can we really understand the other person? I know I can’t.  Why? All is not what it is- it is always more.  We don’t know why he/she hurts so much. We so eager to prove our work/value.  How could you not see? When this is the case, frustration and anxiety sink in. But...
In the midst

In the midst

Are you like most of us who are eager for a happy ending but not comfortable to be in the midst? I’ve discovered that in the midst can be extremely intimate.  How? No matter what our heart is calling out for, our heart is looking for enjoyment, freedom and growth.  We...
I embrace my problems, do you?

I embrace my problems, do you?

Have you ever wished that there would be no problems in life.  Everyone was lovely, kind and it’s pretty easy to talk things out. It turns out this is not quite the case.  More often, we might say something that accidentally pushes a bomb in the other person.  He/she...
What’s This Thing Called Love?

What’s This Thing Called Love?

Are you in love?  Or are you in responsibility?   Love is surely a feeling.  Therefore people fall in love and fall out of love. When we are in love, the person makes us feel good about ourselves.  This feeling is the same feeling when we feel in the psalm of our...
The Dying Swan

The Dying Swan

A beautiful friend of mine lost her dearest son. Two extremely hardships happened ….first was the divorce……now her son. Her son was her angel.  He was always a kind sweet boy.  He grew up and he got into NFL. They were so close…….her son was always there for...
You’re good enough

You’re good enough

I always believe everyone was special since I was young.  It was very painful at the public school system that I didn’t have enough time to understand & develop the uniqueness of my students.   We’re so far away from Heaven on Earth.  We create a very imperfect...
How to enjoy when in the middle?

How to enjoy when in the middle?

In the middle is painful?   You want a soulmate and you wonder where your soulmate is? You want to becoming one with your love partner and you are dealing with glass half-full? What’s your secret to enjoy being in the middle? Or perhaps you just go with the flow.  One...
Half empty?  Half full?

Half empty? Half full?

This was a little episode from Jane and Joe. Jane and Joe had the most trifling disagreement.  He was upset at her watching bonus material on a DVD. It was so silly.  I wanted to laugh.  But that would be rude.   So I listened. Joe always has people listening to him...